Here's a story from the BBC about forced marriages in Pakistan. The reporters recount the story of Alia, who was taken from the UK on vacation to Pakistan, and then forced to marry her 15 year old cousin. She has been trapped with her in-laws for eight months with no possibility of leaving.
The High Commission in Islamabad has taken it upon itself to rescue girls who are victims of forced marriages. Commissioners, as soon as a girl contacts them, will go to the in-laws, and rescue the girl, sometimes in the cover of night. The girls are then taken to a safe house and protected as divorce procedures get finalized. In light of the previous story that I posted on this blog, you can truly see the threat that girls live under on a daily basis. Many of the girls who threaten to leave bad marriages are either beaten, burnt with acid, and sometimes in extreme cases, killed.
There are many justifications for such horrific acts of violence, of course, not the least of which is the extreme devaluation of women and their role in society. Yet, if you think about it, they embody the culture's and their clan's honor. So... are they as powerless as we think?
Tough choice between freedom and honour
By Emily Buchanan
BBC News world affairs correspondent
For officials from the High Commission in Islamabad, rescuing forced marriage victims is a tough, frontline job.
Their latest case takes them on a tortuous five hour car journey into the hills of Kashmir. They have little to go on, except a brief call from a distressed teenager from the Midlands.
Her mobile phone battery low. She resorted to a few text messages to communicate where she was being held captive.
In the first nine months of 2008, the Foreign Office's Forced Marriage Unit handled more than 1,300 cases - about half of these involving minors.
The BBC obtained exclusive access to the Pakistani branch of the operation which rescues British nationals from such forced marriages.
Alia, not her real name, was forced by her parents to marry her 15-year-old Pakistani cousin.
She's been trapped with her in-laws for eight months with no means of escape. There's no public transport in this remote part of the country.
The consular officials, backed up by a police escort, eventually find the house and ask to speak to Alia alone.
Intimidated
She tells them she wants to leave her in-laws' house straight away. The prime mover in this rescue strategy is Albert David, a Pakistani working at the High Commission.
He has the delicate and sometimes dangerous job of breaking the news to the father-in-law.
He comes back with the message that Alia's family wants to speak to her. She refuses, too intimidated to stand up to them in person.
Albert tells her: "We will go out this door with whatever possessions you've got. The car is waiting outside, so you don't have to face them."
Alia agrees immediately and they rush her out the back door into the consular car. So far, there's been no sign of her husband, but then he too is only a teenager.
Most cases of forced marriage involve British women of South East Asian origin. Often, their families' motivation is to help poor relatives obtain a spousal visa so they can live in the UK.
The British government estimates that two-thirds of forced marriages of British nationals are linked to Pakistan, and many of them involve poor families in remote rural areas.
Walking out of her marriage has been a momentous step for Alia - but she knows defying her parents' wishes will be seen as betrayal of the family, especially as the marriage was her grandmother's dying wish.
Every day, Albert David sees the price the women he rescues have to pay.
"This is a very big step for a young person. They know by doing this they are cutting themselves off from the family and they are going into a very uncertain future," he says.
Honour
Vice Consul Theepan Selvaratnam describes another woman he's just visited, a woman who we'll name Rubina.
"She's in a terrible state. She had injuries on her arms and neck. She said she'd been beaten, pushed against a wall, grabbed by the throat.
"Initially, she wanted to come with us. Then she spoke to her husband and decided to stay."
In the car on the way back to Islamabad, he and Albert discuss whether she decided to stay under duress.
"I think she was under their influence and felt threatened. She was worried about her mum and her sister," Albert says.
"If she leaves, what will happen to them?" he asks.
Three days later, Rubina's family allow her to visit the High Commission and speak to consular officials alone.
She is shocked at how hard it is, even with her British education, to stand up for herself against her husband.
"I've never seen anyone with a temper like this," she tells the staff.
"You think because you're a British girl you can stand up for yourself, but it's so difficult. You feel so lonely.
"There never used to be a day I didn't go out with my friends. But here your husband is supposed to be your everything."
You can read the rest of the article, as well as listen to the report and view a video here: http://news.bbc.co.uk/2/hi/uk_news/7754280.stm
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