Showing posts with label Afghanistan. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Afghanistan. Show all posts

Monday, November 30, 2009

Broaching Birth Control With Afghan Mullahs

An article from the New York Times about Afghan Mullahs participating in discussions about birth control. It's a significant step in the right direction, and goes to show that you need the support of all stakeholders for any sustainable change to take effect, especially in a place like Afghanistan.

Broaching Birth Control With Afghan Mullahs

Afghan religious leaders attended a workshop on birth control, birth spacing and breast feeding in Mazar-i-Sharif last month.

By SABRINA TAVERNISE

Published: November 15, 2009

MAZAR-I-SHARIF, Afghanistan - The mullahs stared silently at the screen. They shifted in their chairs and fiddled with pencils. Koranic verses flashed above them, but the topic was something that made everybody a little uncomfortable.

"A baby should be breast-fed for at least 21 months," said the instructor. "Milk is safe inside the breast. Dust and germs can't get inside."

It was a seminar on birth control, a likely subject for a nation whose fertility rate of 6 children per woman is the highest in Asia. But the audience was unusual: 10 Islamic religious leaders from this city and its suburbs, wearing turbans and sipping tea.

The message was simple. Babies are good, but not too many; wait two years before having another to give your wife's body a chance to recover. Nothing in Islam expressly forbids birth control. But it does emphasize procreation, and mullahs, like leaders of other faiths, consider children to be blessings from God, and are usually the most determined opponents of having fewer of them.

It is an attitude that Afghanistan can no longer afford, in the view of the employees of the nonprofit group that runs the seminars, Marie Stopes International. The high birthrate places a heavy weight on a society where average per capita earnings are about $700 a year. It is also a risk to mothers. Afghanistan is second only to Sierra Leone in maternal mortality rates, which run as high as 8 percent in some areas.

 "If we work hard on this issue, we can rescue our country from misery," said Rahmatuddin Bashardost, a doctor who helps lead the mullahs' classes.

 The mullahs were reluctant participants. Truth be told, they were paid to show up. But surprisingly, they seemed to emerge from the session invigorated.

 "This was a useful and friendly discussion," said Mullah Amruddin, a tall man in a dramatic turban. "If you have too many children and you can't control them, that's bad for Islam."

 Maybe they were so receptive because a mullah led the class, using their own language - scripture from the Koran. Or maybe it was because some attitudes are starting to change.

 Syed Wasem Massoom, 29, a mullah and one of the trainers, said urban Afghans were looking for ways to have fewer children. Afghanistan was changing, he said, especially its cities, and mullahs had better be thinking about these issues.

 "People kept asking us how to have less children," he said.

 Afghan women who work for Marie Stopes, distributing birth control door to door in the country's capital, have also noticed an interest. An overwhelming majority of people are still skeptical of their motives. (Foreign spies! Christian missionaries who want to reduce the Muslim population!) But a growing number are open to the idea.

 "Sometimes they are kind of surprised that this kind of thing exists," said one of the workers, a woman named Aziza.

In 2009 alone, the sale of birth control pills nearly doubled to 11,000 in September from 6,000 packages in January, according to Marie Stopes figures.

 One woman was so happy to have birth control pills that she hugged and kissed Aziza, ripped open a package and swallowed a pill with a gulp of water.

 "She said she didn't want to wait until evening," Aziza said, laughing at the memory. The total number of the woman's children: 17. Three dead, 14 living.

 The most difficult families are ones headed by mullahs. Aziza and her colleagues tread carefully in those households. Mahmouda, another worker, recalled walking into one such house and finding the mullah's wife washing clothes and trying to calm a baby. She signaled silently that Mahmouda should talk in a low voice.

 " 'If my husband finds out, he'll punish me,' " Mahmouda recalled the woman saying. " 'I'm pregnant now. I really need those pills.' "

 Taking birth control in secret is not unusual, the women said. Even Aziza's own husband opposes her using it.

 "He said, 'We are Muslims and God gives us babies,' " she said.

 She lies to him, but with a clear conscience. "I talked to him in a good way," she explained. "I told him about the benefits, but he didn't listen to me."

 Those who oppose it sometimes get violent. Aziza recalled people running her out of a neighborhood in Kabul after she introduced birth control there. They accused her of being on the payroll of the Americans, taking dollars to weaken the country.

 " 'They want to capture Afghanistan,' " she recalled that they said. " 'If the Muslims are many, they won't be able to.' "

 In Mazar-i-Sharif, it is one mullah at a time.

 Mr. Massoom, the mullah trainer, put it most directly. "This is an Islamic country," he said. "If the clerics support this, no one will oppose it."

Sangar Rahimi contributed reporting from Mazar-i-Sharif and Kabul.

Wednesday, November 12, 2008

Oh for the love of ....!

I decided a while back that I would not share a lot of the horrible stories that are going around the world so as to allow us to take a level-headed approach to our topics.

But, in the last couple of weeks, the stories have been getting more and more harrowing, and it's no longer possible to keep an dispassionate look on what is going on.

I am truly outraged at these stories. There is absolutely no justification whatsoever for these injustices!

It's absolutely devestating, disheartening and heartbreaking that life is getting to be so incredibly hellish for so many millions around the world!

What or who is to blame for this?!

Here are the two stories that got me all fired up:

From today's news on the BBC:

Acid attack on Afghan schoolgirls

Attackers in Afghanistan have sprayed acid in the faces of at least 15 girls near a school in Kandahar, police say.

They say that the attack happened shortly before at least six people were killed in a bomb blast near a government building in the city.

Doctors say that the six girls were wearing Islamic burkas or veils which provided them with some protection.

Correspondents say the attack is likely to have been carried out by those opposed to the education of women.

A spokesman for the Taleban denied involvement in the attack.

The former Taleban government - ousted from power in 2001 - banned girls from attending school.

'Not safe'
"We were going to school on foot when two unknown people on a motorcycle came close to us and threw acid in our faces," 16-year-old Atifa told the BBC.

"I want to ask the government that why they cannot protect us, we girls want to study but the the government is not helping us. We want better security."

She said that the attack took place on Wednesday morning outside the Mirwais Nika Girls High School.

Officials say that that two attackers used a toy gun to spray the acid and fled as soon as people came to the assistance of the girls.

Atifa said she did not know why anyone would have attacked her and the others.

"I don't know why they did it," she said. "Kandahar is not safe. But we can't stay home, we want an education."

The BBC's Ian Pannell in Kabul says that the incident has shocked ordinary Afghans.

Nato-led forces in Afghanistan condemned the attack as cowardly.
COWARDLY??? That's all they can say? These attacks were cowardly?? Where is the outrage? Where is the justice? How are women supposed to get anywhere in life, if everytime they try to get ahead, they are killed, maimed or burnt??

And, here's the other story from last week's news:
Somali Girl stoned to death


http://news.bbc.co.uk/today/hi/today/newsid_7707000/7707683.stm

13-year-old Somali girl raped and stoned
(Trigger warning.) Last week, Aisha Ibrahim Duhulow, a 13-year-old Somali girl was stoned to death by insurgents because she was raped. They called it adultery.
"Reports indicate that she had been raped by three men while traveling on foot to visit her grandmother in the war-torn capital, Mogadishu," Unicef, the United Nations children's agency, said in a statement.
"Following the assault, she sought protection from the authorities, who then accused her of adultery and sentenced her to death," Unicef added. "A child was victimized twice -- first by the perpetrators of the rape and then by those responsible for administering justice."
As if that wasn't terrible enough, she was killed by 50 men who buried her up to her neck and pelted her with rocks until she died. In a stadium in front of 1,000 spectators. The details of this crime are just wrenching. At least some in the crowd tried to stop it:
Inside the stadium, militia members opened fire when some of the witnesses to the killing attempted to save her life, and shot dead a boy who was a bystander.
Cara at the Curvature and Tracy at Broadsheet have more. Cara writes,
But in the end, whether she was killed because of a rape, because of consensual sex, or because of sexual contact neither consensual or non-consensual because it was entirely imagined, it's not the point. To emphasize that Asha was murdered because she was raped, and that's why her death is a tragedy is to suggest that it would be less tragic if she actually had committed consensual adultery. Asha's life was taken from her, quite simply, because she was a woman.
The Global Campaign to Stop Killing and Stoning Women has a letter-writing action:
You can write a letter to the representatives of Somalia, the African Union, and various UN human rights offices to encourage them to take action by investigating this murder, bringing the perpetrators to justice, and denouncing the actions of these insurgents.
None of Aisha Ibrahim Duhulow's killers have been arrested.
Source: http://www.feministing.com/archives/012146.html

You can hear more about the case, and first hand accounts, from the BBC at this link here: http://news.bbc.co.uk/today/hi/today/newsid_7707000/7707683.stm

For any students who are reading this, what do you think?